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2025
Setting the Record Straight on Adoption in America
From Hope’s Promise
At Hope’s Promise, we believe that accurate information about adoption is essential for supporting children, birth parents, and adoptive families. We’re sharing this important article by Ryan Hanlon, president of the National Council For Adoption, which was originally published in The Hill. As an organization committed to ethical adoption practices, we feel this piece provides valuable clarity on common misconceptions in the adoption conversation.
By Ryan Hanlon, as published in The Hill
Former Transportation Secretary Pete Buttigieg recently sparked a conversation about adoption with comments that described “a list for white kids” and “paying a deposit on a fetus.” While he offered some thoughtful reflections on parenting, these particular remarks — and the media response they generated — highlight a dangerous trend: the use of adoption as a proxy in broader cultural battles, often without context or accuracy.
As someone who has worked with hundreds of adoption agencies and professionals across the country for decades, I can confidently say that these terms misrepresent how private adoption works. More importantly, when media narratives confuse or conflate key facts, the real harm falls on children and families.
The Crucial Distinction Between Private and Foster Care Adoption
One of the most common forms of misinformation happens when conflating private domestic adoption with statistics from the U.S. foster care system. This conflation leads to false conclusions about racial disparities. Private domestic adoption, which typically involves the voluntary placement of infants by their birth-parents, is a fundamentally different system from foster care, where children are placed due to abuse, neglect, or other issues.
The motivations, processes, and challenges differ profoundly between the two. Using data or dynamics from the foster care system to critique private adoption is not only misleading — it’s comparing apples to oranges.
Addressing False Claims About Race-Based Pricing
Even more concerning are recent assertions that some adoption agencies have begun to lower the cost associated with adopting Black children. This is an unfounded and damaging claim. No credible agency bases its fees on the race of a child. To suggest otherwise is to malign the ethical professionals who work tirelessly to ensure every child is placed in a loving home. The comments demonstrate ignorance on two essential aspects of private domestic adoption:
- In most cases, birth parents are choosing the adoptive parents
- There are far more hopeful adoptive parents waiting than there are newborns placed for adoption each year
Both of these points are worth a brief examination.
The Evolution of Birth Parent Autonomy
Adoption has changed dramatically in the last few decades, from past practices where expectant mothers had very little, if any, role in choosing the adoptive parents, and even whether or not to place the child for adoption. Historically, her parents or other authority figures often made those decisions. That has shifted dramatically, with most moms now choosing the adoptive parents and usually maintaining a relationship with their child and the adoptive family after the placement (an “open adoption”).
For mothers who do place for adoption, fewer than one-third say race is an important factor in choosing adoptive parents, but for those who want, they can factor racial considerations, or any other preferences, into their decision-making.
The Reality of Adoption Supply and Demand
In the U.S., only about 25,000 private domestic adoptions happen each year, yet hundreds of thousands of parents would be thrilled to grow their families this way. Because of this mismatch, there is no shortage of qualified families who are eager to adopt children of any race, ethnicity, and other attributes.
These two factors — the birth parents being in the decision-making role of choosing the adoptive parents, coupled with the overabundance of hopeful adoptive parents relative to the number of newborns placed — create a dynamic in which birth parents can be choosy about who they want to be the parents for their child. It also means that adoption agencies would have no reason or incentive to charge less money for the placement of a Black child.
Acknowledging Real Challenges
It is true that private domestic adoption, like all aspects of child welfare, faces real challenges, ranging from inconsistent pre- and post-adoption support to the need for stronger oversight and accountability. There is an essential place for conversations about race in adoption as well. Constructive criticism is welcome and necessary, and reform efforts are needed.
For example, the Federal Trade Commission recently sent warning letters to 31 entities suspected of predatory practices such as misleading adoptive parents about their success rates and suppressing negative reviews online. Such actions deserve public scrutiny and reform.
But reform must begin with facts, not fiction. Mischaracterizations and sensational headlines about racial adoption lists both distract from real problems and stigmatize the people who have navigated the adoption process with good faith and integrity. Reducing adoption to a subject for culture-war shorthand risks alienating families who deserve understanding and support.
If we want to improve adoption in the U.S., we must pursue thoughtful, informed dialogue grounded in reality, not rhetoric. The lives and futures of children and families are too meaningful for anything less.
Ryan Hanlon is president of the National Council For Adoption. This article was originally published in The Hill.
Find the original article HERE.
2025
The Role of Orphan Care in Global Communities
Introduction to Orphan Care
In a world where millions of children face life without parental care, the need for supportive, loving environments has never been greater. Orphan care has become a critical pillar for global communities striving to provide every child with the stability and love that a family offers. Traditional orphanages have been a longstanding solution, but more family-centered approaches are emerging, aiming to give children not just shelter but also a sense of belonging and support. Understanding how orphan care operates in global contexts reveals just how transformative community-based, family-oriented systems can be for children and society as a whole. Read more about Hope’s Promise’s approach in our blog Why We Discontinued Child Sponsorship.
Why Orphan Care Matters in Today’s World
Orphan care extends beyond helping individual children; it builds stronger communities. Children raised with family support often grow up to become well-adjusted, productive members of society. Yet without support, many orphans face risks of poverty, lack of education, and even exploitation. Orphan care programs play a significant role in providing hope and stability, aiming to give each child a chance to reach their potential. When communities come together to support orphan care initiatives, they create an environment where children and families alike can thrive.
The Global Scope of Orphanhood
There are an estimated 150 million orphaned children worldwide—a staggering number that speaks to the need for effective care solutions [link]. Orphanhood arises from a variety of causes, including poverty, disease, war, and natural disasters. In some regions, societal and economic challenges, such as health crises and conflicts, can exacerbate the number of children without family care. Recognizing the scope and underlying causes of orphanhood helps us address the needs of vulnerable children with compassion and cultural sensitivity.
Traditional vs. Modern Approaches to Orphan Care
Historically, orphanages served as the primary model for providing shelter to children without parents. However, research has shown that children fare better in family-centered settings than in large, institutionalized facilities. Today, we see a significant shift towards family-based solutions, such as kinship care, foster programs, and community involvement. Modern orphan care models encourage communities to act as extended families, providing children with a sense of security and permanence that institutional care often lacks.
Models of Family-Based Orphan Care
Kinship care, where relatives or extended family take in orphaned children, has proven effective, especially in preserving the child’s connection to their heritage and culture. In other cases, foster care programs enable non-related families to open their homes to orphans, giving them a chance to experience family life. Long-term guardianship and adoption are also common pathways, with adoption providing the opportunity for children to become a permanent part of a family. Each of these models highlights the value of a child-centered, holistic approach to care.
The Church and Faith-Based Organizations in Orphan Care
Faith-based organizations have a longstanding role in orphan care, often leading the charge in establishing community-focused, family-centered care models. Many churches view orphan care as a mission-driven effort, aiming to address both the physical and emotional needs of children [link]. These organizations offer vital resources, from financial support to volunteer caregivers, and have established innovative programs that inspire hope. Many success stories in orphan care have roots in faith-driven missions, with countless children finding homes and communities through such initiatives.
Challenges Facing Global Orphan Care Efforts
While the global orphan care movement has made great strides, it faces significant obstacles. Financial constraints often limit the resources available for fostering and adoption programs. Moreover, social stigmas in some cultures make foster care and adoption less accessible, as societal expectations may discourage these practices. In some regions, local laws can further complicate adoption and kinship care, making it challenging for families who want to help. Overcoming these barriers requires both government support and community-level efforts to normalize and champion the idea of family-based care.
Hope and Healing: Success Stories of Orphan Care
In countless communities, orphan care programs have transformed lives. For instance, children once confined to institutional care have found families, and with them, a new lease on life. Volunteer and community-driven programs have empowered youth to succeed in school, build careers, and give back to their communities. Stories of resilience and healing offer hope and inspiration, demonstrating that every child, no matter their background, has the potential to thrive when given the right support.
How You Can Make a Difference in Orphan Care
The need for compassionate advocates and volunteers in orphan care is ongoing. Volunteering, whether through local foster care programs or international advocacy, can make a direct impact. Supporting organizations that focus on family-based care models, contributing financially to orphan care initiatives, or simply spreading awareness can change lives. Advocacy on behalf of orphans and vulnerable children is also essential; raising awareness helps remove social and cultural stigmas, making family-based care a viable option for more children.
Conclusion: Creating a Future for Every Child
Orphan care goes beyond providing shelter—it’s about nurturing hope and fostering a supportive community for every child. As communities, organizations, and individuals come together to support family-based care initiatives, we move closer to a world where all children have the opportunity to grow up in loving, stable environments. Through our collective actions, we can help ensure that every child experiences the love and support they need to build a brighter future. Now is the time to step up, spread the word, and make a difference in the lives of millions of orphaned children across the globe.
To explore more stories, resources, and information that can guide you on your journey, we invite you to visit our main blog page at Hope’s Promise Blog. Whether you’re an expectant parent, an adoptive family, or someone interested in supporting vulnerable children, our articles can provide the information and encouragement you need.
2025
Addressing Adoptee Citizenship Concerns
Hope’s Promise shares valuable information regarding adoptee citizenship concerns, thanks to this Q & A from the National Council for Adoption.
2025
2024 Adoption Tax Credit
It’s hard to believe that it is already tax season, but here we are! Hope’s Promise is dedicated to sharing great resources on all things foster care, adoption, and orphan care. So, when we came across this blog from the National Council for Adoption, we knew we had to share it with our adoptive families.
Doing your taxes can be tricky, but if you think you might be eligible for the adoption tax credit, this guide is a great resource.
Enjoy!
2025
How to Choose an Adoption Agency: Key Considerations
How to choose an adoption agency is one of the most critical steps in your adoption journey. With so many options available, understanding the key factors that distinguish agencies can make the difference between a smooth, successful process and a challenging experience. This guide explores how to choose an adoption agency that aligns with your values, goals, and unique circumstances.
Why Choosing the Right Adoption Agency Matters
Your adoption agency acts as your partner and advocate throughout the process. They help you navigate the complex legal, financial, and emotional aspects of adoption. Choosing a reliable agency ensures that you:
- Feel confident about the child’s welfare and ethical practices.
- Receive personalized support throughout the process.
- Comply with international and domestic regulations.
Key Factors to Consider When Choosing an Adoption Agency
Selecting the right agency requires careful research and a clear understanding of your priorities. Here are the essential considerations:
Accreditation and Licensing
- Ensure the agency is licensed in your state and accredited by organizations such as the National Council for Adoption or the Christian Alliance for Orphans.
- Verify the agency’s compliance with the Intercountry Adoption Act if you’re pursuing an international adoption.
Experience and Expertise
- Choose an agency with extensive experience in the type of adoption you’re pursuing (domestic, foster care, or international).
- Ask for case studies or success stories that demonstrate their expertise. For example, Hope’s Promise has helped countless families adopt children domestically, providing compassionate and comprehensive support.
Transparency in Costs
- Request a detailed breakdown of adoption costs, including agency fees, travel expenses, and post-adoption services.
- Be cautious of agencies that are vague or reluctant to disclose fees.
Support Services
- Look for agencies that provide pre-adoption counseling, training, and post-adoption support.
- Confirm the availability of bilingual staff or translators if you’re adopting internationally.
Checklist for Families: How to Choose an Adoption Agency
Here’s a quick checklist to guide your decision-making:
Accreditation: Is the agency licensed and accredited for the type of adoption you’re pursuing?
Reputation: What do reviews, testimonials, and references from other families say about the agency?
Transparency: Can the agency provide a clear adoption costs breakdown upfront?
Support: Does the agency offer pre- and post-adoption services?
Experience: How long has the agency been in operation, and what is its track record with international adoptions?
Ethical Practices: Does the agency follow ethical guidelines for child placement and birth family support?
Communication: Are the agency’s staff responsive, empathetic, and willing to answer all your questions?
FAQs About Choosing an Adoption Agency
How to choose an adoption agency for international adoption?
- Look for agencies accredited by the Hague Convention and experienced with your chosen country.
- Evaluate their knowledge of specific country regulations and ability to handle unique challenges, such as travel and visa processes.
What should I avoid when choosing an adoption agency?
- Avoid agencies with unclear fees, poor communication, or a lack of accreditation.
- Be wary of agencies that make unrealistic promises about timelines or costs.
Read tips on ethical adoptions at Adoption.com.
Conclusion
How to choose an adoption agency requires diligence, research, and thoughtful consideration. By focusing on factors such as accreditation, transparency, and support services, you can find an agency that aligns with your needs. Remember, a successful adoption journey starts with making an informed choice.
Looking for more stories, updates, and resources about adoption, foster care, and orphan care? Visit our main blog page at Hope’s Promise Blog to discover more resources and join us in writing stories of hope together.